tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21694410453269027052024-03-13T21:35:54.257-07:00Alzheimer's Disease SurvivorHomewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-44375191027572075682010-07-20T16:11:00.000-07:002010-07-20T16:13:55.421-07:00New Guidelines For Early Diagnosis Of Alzheimer'sPlease check out this video that contains new guidelines for earlier diagnosis of Alzheimer's Disease dementia. Being able to diagnose the disease as early as possible can lead to treat that will slow down the progress of symptoms!<br /><br /><a href="http://cnn.com/video/?/video/health/2010/07/20/am.seg.alzheimer.diagnosis.cnn">EARLIER ALZHEIMER'S DISEASE DETECTION</a>Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-24151072208583357112009-11-01T14:58:00.000-08:002009-11-01T15:05:34.781-08:00November 2009 - Alzheimer's Awareness MonthIt's November 2009 and Alzheimer's Awareness is upon us once again. If only the grocery stores carried products with purple ribbons on them, like they do in October for breast cancer awareness. Because so many families in this country are affected by Alzheimers dementia! If you are affected, please put a purple ribbon where people can see it, and take the time to explain a little about it to anyone who shows an interest.<br /> As our population ages, the incidence of Alzheimer's Disease seems to be increasing. Several of my friends have had parents with Alzheimer's. Some had to quit their jobs to care for their parents, others had to deal with the constant stress of frequent travel to check on their parents and help meet their needs. How you handle it is never an easy choice; it requires balance and the ability to change as the disease changes.<br /> I'm thinking it's time I look around my own community to see if there is an Alzheimer's memory walk of some kind this month. While I was caring for my Mom, it was too hard to participate in that kind of thing. But I think I'm ready now.Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-19475781121857278672009-08-17T14:22:00.000-07:002009-08-17T14:25:54.769-07:00STILL MISSING MY MOTHER BUT LIFE IS GOODIt has been 18 months since my Mother's passing and all of us still miss her. But we are moving forward and have left much of the painful memories behind. I found a little bottle of her perfume still in our bathroom closet where I put it before she went to the nursing home. Lately I've been wearing it. The fragrance makes me feel very close to her. I don't think I could have worn it last year, but time is healing the wounds left by Alzheimer's and I am grateful.Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-86676259118838701582009-01-08T03:15:00.000-08:002009-01-08T03:29:34.061-08:00Anniversary Of My Mother's Death ApproachesFebruary will bring the first anniversary of my Mother's death from Alzheimer's disease. We miss her very much! My first Christmas without her was so hard... I didn't expect that. Even with all my kids home, there was such a hole without my mom. <br />Throughout this past year I have tried to establish new traditions for holidays that remind me of her, or honor traditions that were important to her for that holiday. For example, my mother always served some kind of cabbage dish on New Year's Day to bring good luck in the coming year. This year, I made delicious egg rolls filled with ground chicken and Napa cabbage! It reminded me of her, even though she usually made cabbage rolls or red cabbage with apples.<br />I think it's important for loved ones to continue remembering in positive ways the person they have lost. I have many special traditions to look forward to this year, like taking an Easter lily to someone in a nursing home on Easter, sending flowers anonymously to a 'forgotten' or single mom on Mother's Day, buying food for the homeless on Thanksgiving, etc. <br />Thanks Mother, for making my life richer and more meaningful not only when you were alive but now and in the future. I love you.Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-15749867579447465202008-10-19T20:17:00.001-07:002008-10-19T20:23:58.674-07:00November Is Alzheimer's Awareness MonthEach November is Alzheimer's Awareness Month. Having a special month to focus on such an important topic makes it easier to remind others that there are so many sufferers in America alone. And not just the patients, but also the families who care for their loved ones and watch them losing those precious memories right before their eyes. I hope you will take time to remember those who can't this November. Maybe you could add a sticker to your car, or wear a t-shirt on dress down day at work. Better yet, go to a local nursing home and ask at the desk if there is anyone who would enjoy a visit. <br /><a href="http://www.zazzle.com/stop_alzheimers_disease_hoodie_shirt-235747791673415471?gl=memoryshoppe&style=ladies_fitted_babydoll&color=lilac&context=jamie&group=womens&lifeStyle=all&rf=238668064048562015"><br /> <img src="http://rlv.zcache.com/stop_alzheimers_disease_hoodie_shirt-p235747791673415471cohj_325.jpg" alt="Stop Alzheimer's Disease Hoodie shirt" style="border: 0px;" /><br /> </a><br /><a href="http://www.zazzle.com/stop_alzheimers_disease_hoodie_shirt-235747791673415471?gl=memoryshoppe&style=ladies_fitted_babydoll&color=lilac&context=jamie&group=womens&lifeStyle=all&rf=238668064048562015">Stop Alzheimer's Disease Hoodie</a><br /> by<br /> <a href="http://www.zazzle.com/memoryshoppe?rf=238668064048562015"><br /> memoryshoppe<br /> </a>Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-39556432997838286032008-09-14T06:49:00.000-07:002008-09-14T07:02:52.579-07:007 Month MarkWe lost my mom seven months ago today. Wow, that seems impossible in some ways. And I feel the loss more acutely now than I did when she first passed on. SO many things remind me of her. And seeing photos or videos with her in them are especially hard. We all agree has passed on to a much better place but we miss her in our lives here. Alzheimer's is tough and it took her away from us long before death did. Here's a t-shirt I made in commemoration of how I feel about losing my mom:<br />I Miss My Mom - We Lost Her To Alzheimer's t-shirt<br /><div style="text-align: center; line-height: 150%"><br /> <a href="http://www.zazzle.com/i_miss_my_mom_womens_alzheimers_t_shirt-235635126930743319?gl=memoryshoppe&rf=238024992613803076*"><br /> <img src="http://rlv.zazzle.com/i_miss_my_mom_womens_alzheimers_t_shirt-p235635126930743319kp1_325.jpg" alt="I Miss My Mom Womens Alzheimer's T-shirt shirt" style="border: 0px;" /><br /> </a><br /><br /> by<br /> <a href="http://www.zazzle.com/memoryshoppe?rf=238024992613803076*"><br /> memoryshoppe<br /> </a><br /><br /></div>Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-45817169585580832382008-07-27T15:01:00.000-07:002008-07-27T15:05:01.454-07:00Five months and moreWow, it's been over five months now since we lost my mother. In that time, we also lost my father in law. Our children have had a hard time dealing with losing two grandparents so close together, but are recovering well. I am grateful they had the chance to become close to my mom during the years she lived with us. <br />Perspective is developing for me, too, as I look back on our last few months with Mother. I'm realizing that caregiver burnout had set in for me and that the amount of time I spent/didn't spend at the nursing home each day was okay. I know Mother understands. And I do too.Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-67179329792588264552008-04-14T08:18:00.000-07:002008-04-14T08:22:51.726-07:00Two Months TodayIt's been two months today since my mom died of Alzheimer's Disease. The time has gone fast... <br />Last week a grief counselor from the funeral home called to see how our family was coping. It was nice to be able to say that we are doing just fine now. With each passing week, my feelings have changed. Recently we attended the 80th birthday party for my aunt. I took photos from my mom's burial service as they had not been able to attend. I was surprised that I could share them with good memories attached of that day and the service. I'm so glad now that Mother has gone on to a better place. Her last year was difficult for everyone, most of all her. We love you, Mom!Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-153638293068834512008-03-26T10:38:00.000-07:002008-03-26T10:49:53.981-07:00A Month Has PassedA month has passed, and a little more, since we lost my mom to Alzheimer's Disease. I wondered how I would feel at this point. It all seemed so simple right when she passed. Her suffering was over, our family had our own life back as far as the amount of time we were spending in her care. But I'm finding that I miss her more now than I did when she first passed on. <br />The day before Easter, I realized that a tradition my own family had was for my father to buy Mother an Easter lily every year. After their divorce, I was the one to buy her a lily each Easter. It was hard to know I couldn't do that this year. Or could I? My dear husband went out Saturday evening and bought a beautiful potted Easter lily full of blooms for me to take to someone. I told him that I really wanted to do that, and he said fine. On Sunday morning we stopped by to visit a family friend who lives in a nursing home nearby. She was delighted with the flowers and I was thrilled to carry on our tradition in a new way. <br />Next year I want to give several lilies away in honor of my mother. It is a wonderful tradition that we can continue even though she is not here with us. Mom, I love you, Happy Easter!Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-78974908928070356112008-03-06T19:12:00.000-08:002008-03-06T19:14:25.457-08:00Some Sad DaysI didn't think it would happen to me because I am basically pretty settled about my Mom's death, but I am finding that out of the blue, I will suddenly start thinking about here and the tears come. I'm not much of a crier in general, so it is both unexpected and unusual. But I always feel better afterwards.Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-53920974010906846402008-02-29T02:41:00.000-08:002008-02-29T02:47:34.895-08:00Two Weeks NowIt was almost exactly two weeks ago today that my mom passed away from Alzheimer's Disease. She had a cold a couple of weeks before that, seemed to get better, but just wasn't eating as well as before. She had been on pureed foods since before Christmas but usually ate all of them for us. The week she died, Mother just lost interest in eating or drinking, and seemed to pull away from us. It is possible she had a little mini stroke as she has been known to have them before, but the doctor wasn't sure. By mid-week, she wasn't swallowing at all for the most part. <br />We set up hospice care that Wednesday, received our first hospice services on Thursday, and Friday morning at 5:25 she passed away quietly. We had been with her for several hours on Thursday and I had brought my two youngest children to see her late that afternoon. None of us realized at the time that Grandma was so close to leaving. We were expecting weeks at least. But what blessing to have her go so quickly at the end, and to pass away quietly that Friday morning. I wish I had been with her...Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169441045326902705.post-50233015466451473892008-02-26T09:58:00.000-08:002008-02-26T10:14:05.522-08:00I'm A SurvivorWelcome to my blog about Alzheimer's Disease. On February 15, 2008 I lost my mom to Alzheimers after a long battle. It was a peaceful end and I'm going to write about it in a future post but the wound is still pretty fresh right now. I need a little time before I record it completely, maybe just a few days but we'll see. <br />In the meantime, I'm going to go ahead and list a link to an Alzheimer's support shop that I made a couple of years ago. I was home taking care of my mom and needed something for income, so I started selling t-shirts and gifts on my computer. Besides my music and other t-shirts, I decided to make an Alzheimer's shop because it gave me a way to feel like I was contributing in some way to other people who were going through what I was at the time. I made a few buttons and stickers and some shirt designs for family members and caregivers. Maybe someone else who's reading this today will also like them. As a tribute to my mom I'm going to keep it open and add new things whenever I feel the need to express myself in that way. The rest of the time, I'm going to list links and articles about Alzheimer's Disease, and maybe just talk about what our battle was like. It's weird now that it is over. Anyway, here are my Alzheimer's designs:<table cellpadding="8" border="0" align="left" width="100%"><tr><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1897829"><img alt="ALZHEIMER'S BUTTONS" border="0" src="http://logo.cafepress.com/9/4530421.1897829.jpg"></a><br><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1897829">ALZHEIMER'S BUTTONS</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">Looking for an Alzheimer's button to wear, or a whole bunch to use as fund raisers for your organization? We have lots to choose from!</span></td><br /></tr><br /><tr><br /><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1710473"><img alt="ALZHEIMER'S BUMPER STICKERS" border="0" src="http://logo.cafepress.com/3/4530421.1710473.jpg"></a><br><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1710473">ALZHEIMER'S BUMPER STICKERS</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">You'll find a variety of bumper stickers in this section, all aimed at raising awareness or adding some humor about the fight against Alzheimer's disease.</span></td><br /></tr><br /><tr><br /><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/3640201"><img alt="Alzheimer's Awareness License Plate Frames" border="0" src="http://logo.cafepress.com/1/4530421.3640201.jpg"></a><br><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/3640201">Alzheimer's Awareness License Plate Frames</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">Add an Alzheimer's Awareness license plate frame to your auto, or give one as a gift to help raise awareness about this common disability.</span></td><br /></tr><br /><tr><br /><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1702683"><img alt="ALZHEIMER'S AWARENESS AND SUPPORT T-shirts" border="0" src="http://logo.cafepress.com/3/4530421.1702683.jpg"></a><br><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1702683">ALZHEIMER'S AWARENESS AND SUPPORT T-shirts</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">Shop for Alzheimer's Awareness t-shirts for individuals or groups. Great Alzheimers support slogans on many shirt styles plus matching gifts.</span></td><br /></tr><br /><tr><br /><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1702721"><img alt="ALZHEIMER'S FAMILY AND CAREGIVERS T-shirts" border="0" src="http://logo.cafepress.com/1/4530421.1702721.jpg"></a><br><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1702721">ALZHEIMER'S FAMILY AND CAREGIVERS T-shirts</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">Special t-shirts and gift items for Alzheimer's caregivers and family members. </span></td><br /></tr><br /><tr><br /><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1703354"><img alt="Alzheimer's ALZIE TEDDYBEARS" border="0" src="http://logo.cafepress.com/4/4530421.1703354.jpg"></a><br><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1703354">Alzheimer's ALZIE TEDDYBEARS</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">Teddy Bears can warm the hearts of Alzheimer's patients, caregivers and family members too! See our selection of cute, cuddly friends to brighten your day.</span></td><br /></tr><br /><tr><br /><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/3112385"><img alt="DESIGN YOUR OWN Alzheimer's / Awareness T-shirts" border="0" src="http://logo.cafepress.com/5/4530421.3112385.jpg"></a><br><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/3112385">DESIGN YOUR OWN Alzheimer's / Awareness T-shirts</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">New! Now you can design your own Alzheimer's support t-shirts, bumper stickers, teddy bears and more. Great for local support chapters! Fast and easy, order one or a dozen.</span></td><br /></tr><br /><tr><br /><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1702722"><img alt="ALZHEIMER'S Greeting Cards And Notecards" border="0" src="http://logo.cafepress.com/2/4530421.1702722.jpg"></a><br><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/1702722">ALZHEIMER'S Greeting Cards And Notecards</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">Send Alzheimer's support greeting cards when you want to help raise awareness about memory loss and it's affect on families.</span></td><br /></tr><br /><tr><br /><td align="center" valign="top"><a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-2683258-10463747?url=http://www.cafepress.com/memoryshoppe/2241465">AWARENESS DESIGNS ON Tees & Gifts - CANCER & MORE</a><br><span class="storesmallprint">Looking for ways to raise awareness for other important causes like research for breast and other cancers? Browse our designs here...</span></td><br /></tr></table>Homewise Shopperhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17602100927565508594noreply@blogger.com0